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Just making sure I'm in the right place. I cannot see any developed communities here so I've started wondering, what's the real place everyone from Reddit has moved to? I've heard something about Discuit, but never tried it.

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[–] chrisphero@lemmy.world 57 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I always remind myself to do this… Interesting post but no comments? Just add the first comment and a conversation will start - for me at least, there was always somebody commenting.

[–] Risk@feddit.uk 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yup. We have to be the content we want to see.

[–] redballooon@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Does that also apply to porn consumers?

[–] OccamsTeapot@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Nah we upvote that shit and stay silent, 300 upvotes and zero comments

[–] autumn@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Why else would smutty fanart/fanfic exist? 😏

[–] Papanca@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really try to make an effort to contribute. I sometimes still find it a bit uncomfortable - i remember the harsh ways people got called out/downvoted/got incredibly unkind replies on reddit-, but i try to do it anyway, if i feel i have something to contribute/something kind to say/have a question

Got ya. You can't make people always agree with you. Sometimes your opinion is just unpopular. But it is important to speak with each other in a proper manner. Maybe we learn from each other.

Never go the way of people pleasing. Be kind and you will receive it.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

I do this all the time. Even if my comment isn't substantial it lowers the barrier to entry for others.