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Have you ever had someone get mad at you for asking why you shouldn't do something? (lemmings.world)

submitted 1 day ago by PixelPilgrim@lemmings.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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A specific example from me would be implementing LLM AI into my code (genetically) and without more details than that I'll get people demanding that I don't do that and giving suggestions for what I should do.

Suggestions are cool, but I'm gonna ask why I should not put LLM in my code in a generic sense just to have my question ignored or have lies and insults hurled my way

It's cool if you want to answer that question, I'm just curious about other people's similar story about receiving resistance to follow up questions if you just have to say those people aren't worth it or you feel like you missed something you shouldn't have in those situations.

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[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes, many times. Often it's because they don't understand what it is I'm trying to do. More often than not, they make wild assumptions about what I'm suggesting and then lose their fucking minds instead of asking for clarification. Ultimately it becomes an argument about what they think I'm talking about and I never get an actual answer.

[–] PixelPilgrim@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago

I'm trying to think if that has happened to me, but I try to keep it simple like "i dont understand what you mean my X are you saying Y?". that probably gets me different set of interactions. One time I even tried humbling myself and just say "I'm still learning all of this and trying to figure out my mistakes..." and such ill get bereted(by strangers). i try to power through the insults and just ask what they mean and it still comes off as you being offensive