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So I am a part of the LGBTQ community and work in a big city in middle europe. A lot of my coworkers are religios and have a foreign background. They are mostly very nationalist and homo-/transphobic. I hate them for their blind hate and bigotry, which wont change. I have realised, that I have become a bit bigotred towards people like them in the last few months, which is, even tho my biases often revealed to be true, just unfair to them. How could I stop that?

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[โ€“] Fizz@lemmy.nz 8 points 1 year ago

In my opinion it's fine to hate them for their beliefs. But you need to remember that everyone that looks like them isn't them. Each human is a complex person and it's unfair to hate a person without knowing them.

What might help is trying to find someone of that race who is lgbt and speaking to them. That might help stop your brain from jumping to the conclusion of their all bigots.