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As a writer, this is why I'll never condemn cozy books with happy endings. This type of media, whether it's games or books or music, helps real people get through crappy times intact, even if elitists sneer that overly happy stuff isn't this or that. Usually people who are going through the worst times irl are the ones who need avenues of escape most. If you're already living through crap, you don't need media to remind you of the crap, you already know good and well that crappy things exist.
I’m trying to write a story, and I struggled with this, especially when confronting certain realities:
I’m aware most stories don’t come anywhere close to a full happy ending like this. Every Batman story ends with Gotham still a miserable shithole. Every noir story ends with the case solved but everyone broken for it and the city still a dystopia. It generally has good reasoning, to reflect harshness of reality, but that’s a realm of fantasy I really want to venture into; one where things just work out.
As a reader, that's definitely why I do condemn overly negative books and other media. Even after reading all horror books available in the library as a teenager. Life's complicated enough by itself.
As a reader, I say "not for me" and leave overly negative things there for others to enjoy. The way I feel better is not reexposing myself to a reflection of all the ills in this world that I'm constantly being shown can be awful. But some people find catharsis in it! One man's trash is another man's treasure, after all. I am sure some people would dismiss some things I like as too saccharine and not realistic aka gritty enough.