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I'm in my 30s so I should be used to this by now, but this shit is getting so stressful guys. I have no savings, my checking account is drained every month with rent, and if there's ever a serious emergency I have no safety net, I'm legitimately fucked. I'm one unplanned expense away from absolute ruin. Those in the same boat as me, how do you deal with this?

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[โ€“] mke_geek@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

This is absolutely horrible advice. Being financially broke doesn't mean having to be morally broke. Those who don't have much money don't have to become bad people.

[โ€“] MacroCyclo@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, but unfortunately it's par for the course on lemmy.

[โ€“] phillaholic@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

The first line literally says they don't suggest or recommend it. The Answer was how do people do it. Crime is how some people do it.

[โ€“] xhieron@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"The law, in its majestic equality, forbids the rich as well as the poor to sleep under bridges, to beg in the streets, and to steal bread."

That is to say, the error is to conflate law with morality. They are not one and the same.

[โ€“] snor10@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago

Yes, but stealing has been considered amoral in all cultures for all of history.

Stealing is fundamentally wrong, only a tiny fraction of humanity would ever disagree.