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Do you ever want people to be jealous of you? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 6 days ago by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I love the thought of people thinking of me obsessively and wanting to be just like me.

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[–] hedgehogging_the_bed@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I've had people jealous of me. People who tried to steal my spouse or thought they would be so happy living my life.

It didn't make me one bit happier. Sometimes it made me suffer, that they didn't see that things were really difficult for me in ways that were invisible.

That feeling that I thought was wanting a perfect life was really needing anxiety meds I am way happier with well-adjusted meds.