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"officially" is an ambigious term here. Legally, 18 years old in the US. "completely" an adult? depends on a variety of factors. Most people under 25 aren't allowed to rent a car by themselves in the US, so that brings up the age in regards to that. Regardless, I think this is a tangential question.
I think what you mean to ask, is at what age does a person make decisions for themselves completely, as we're talking about this 19 year old being pressured into going into the sub. Well that depends on the situation of the person in question which is basically what I said in my previous post. Does this person live on their own? Provide income for themselves? How is their relationship with their parents? How confident is the person in themselves?
At 19 years old, many people are still reliant on their parents for many things, and also living with them. Arguments are way more impactful in this situation because you can't just go home and leave, or you can't ignore certain things because they may be ongoing or consistent problems. There's probably already arguments happening in this relationship about how each person wants to handle different things. This may be a situation where the 19 year old thought, "I don't want to cause a big argument over this" so they give in.
You should at least reread things before commenting to not waste your time my previous post with added bold, and brackets:
We don't know if this 19 year old has a high paying job. I doubt it since many people don't have a degree at this age.