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~30 year old Lemmings who live in apartments, do you make friends with your neighbours? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 week ago by ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Beyond the polite "Hey, how's it going". Close enough to hang out at each other's apartment, maybe even ask them to water your plants or feed your pet while you're away.

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[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've noticed it's mostly the elderly who try to engage in conversations more, I usually chalk it up to them being more lonely and having a less busy schedule

[–] InquisitiveApathy@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

I think that's a part of it. They're also usually the ones who are likely to end up being longer-term residents so they're more invested.

I don't mind chatting, but usually when a I'm outside my apartment I'm in the process of doing something. Personally I hate getting trapped in small talk when I'm just trying to spend 60 seconds to take my trash out or walk to my car.