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I can't speak to your family, but when you talk about the full group of people who voted for Trump (or even people that would self identify as conservativr) you're talking about tens of millions of people. The idea that absolutely all, or even a majority of them, are explicitly aware of and OK with the people marching with nazi flags is something that can't just be taken as fact.

That's the core thrust of your argument, and it's so obviously flawed to me that I honestly have a hard time engaging with it.

Likewise, guilt by association is something that doesn't hold up at the mind boggling scales we're talking about. Guilt by association isn't ok in the far smaller scale case of associating the looters that took advantage of the BLM riots with the BLM rioters, right? It's not ok on the scale of "darkies commit more crimes statistically, so they're all criminals" right? So how can we lean on that so heavily with a much larger group that crosses all sorts of demographics lines?

Let me be clear: The ones that are aware, the ones that are literally sitting across the table (not simply a member of a mind bogglingly large amorphous group of vague political beliefs), the ones that are actually racist... fuck em. Garbage people.

But the assertion that literally every single person who made the shit ass choice to vote for the cheeto is just as bad as the marching nazis on his side is just a childish attempt to simplify a massively complicated situation involving many millions of people, all with their own personal lived experiences, priorities likely different from yours, differing levels and sources of news exposure, differing levels of education, and differing levels of political engagement.

This next part may sound condescending, but I hope you can believe that I don't mean it to be:

Maybe that simplification is what you need to make it through the day. Fair enough. Maybe that's what you need to not lose your mind having fruitless conversations with assholes. Fair enough.

But don't delude yourself into thinking that's any true solution for moving forward. It's survival at best. Maybe that's all you're capable of right now, and that's fine. Life was and continues to be rough without all this extra shit. Without taking it upon yourself to try and fix the gaping chasm of political divide.

Just don't be surprised when these people you denigrate, ignore, blanketly label as the worst of humanity don't have interest in working with you towards a better tomorrow. That's the trade off.

There either has to be some attempt made to reach and turn these people, or we resign ourselves that this shit will continue to happen again and again.