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[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 67 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

Yes. There is no contradiction. Freedom or speech is the freedom to discuss or criticise as part of a discussion, in particular the freedom to criticize those in power without the fear of repercussion. Discuss sensitive topics to all your hearts desire. Hate speech does not intend to discuss anything. Hate speech is there to target, to threaten, to belittle, to dehumanise, to attack. Hate speech is violence.

Edit; As usual with this topic "free speech absolutists" emerge, often accompanied by elaborate use of language and a thesaurus. And as usual they are not really into the entire "free speech" as in "freedom of discussion", but rather "freedom of consequences" for themselves. Well boo hoo, ain't that a pearl clutching shame of a slippery slope to the strawman of "who are the real Nazis" when not supporting your freedom of unadulterated hatred to run free into the world.

[–] lemmyng@lemmy.ca 28 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's essentially a practical application of the paradox of tolerance. And like with that one, the paradox goes away when the offending party breaks the social contract.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them.

In this formulation, I do not imply, for instance, that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies; as long as we can counter them by rational argument and keep them in check by public opinion, suppression would certainly be most unwise." - Karl Popper, The Open Society and Its Enemies (1945)

Everyone seems to forget the second paragraph of the quote.

Also a contract by definition cannot be valid and signed under duress thus the social contract is an invalid assertion. At the end of the day only thing that actually matters is Darwinian evaluation.

[–] Uruanna@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Everyone seems to forget the second paragraph of the quote.

No. The "as long as" does the necessary lifting there. Far-right rhetoric is a denial of reality and of any argument with a complete lack of shame or self-reflection, therefor this second part doesn't apply.

There was a time when we thought rational argumentation and logic were good enough to convince, but that has been dead for a few decades, and the US just paid that price.

signed under duress

~~I didn't ask to be born~~ the point is if you don't sign the contract you're not protected by it and you get no benefit, that's not duress. If you sign it but break it, you pay. No one is forcing you to sign, but if you don't, you can fuck off.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee -1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I took "counter them" to imply countering their actions amd thus their indoctrination of new people (as to keep them as a minority).

Far-right rhetoric is a denial of reality and of any argument with a complete lack of shame or self-reflection

Name a single intolerant utterancr that does not fulfill this criterion. Ur welcome to critisize karl popers arguments if u wish. But if u do so u cannot use the same argument to support ur arguments and argue against the second half of that very argument. Classic case of cakeism.

The election in the us has very little to do with extremism or utterance of intoletant ideology. Trump got the same or very simmillar amount of votes as he did last time. Harris lost millions compared to biden. Most people dont read the news and thus are completly uneducated on politics. They hear a sound byte like "make america great again" go "fuck i cant afford bread id like to be great again when i could afford to eat" and vote based on that. The average person is an idiot and half of all people are dumber than that.

the point is if you don't sign the contract you're not protected by it and you get no benefit, that's not duress.

Ur forgetting the most important law of all. Its not illegal if u dont get caught. As long as u dont get caught u can go around breaking the social contract as much ad u want and still get the benifits and protections of it. Eg every billionare or corporation ever.

If you sign it but break it, you pay. No one is forcing you to sign, but if you don't, you can fuck off.

No. If u sign it and break it and get caught breaking it and cant pay ur way out then u pay. The social contract is a tool the government and elites use to derive legitimacy while also allowing them and their buddies to neglect holding up their end.

[–] hypna@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

I would be careful with phrases like, "there is no contradiction." There is a comprehensible tension between free speech as the ability for anyone to say what they wish, and a prohibition on hate speech as a prohibition on saying specific things. Denying that risks damaging one's credibility because it can appear that we are merely refusing to acknowledge that tension.

I argue it's better to admit these tensions. And that's not an admission that the arguments for prohibition of hate speech are weak, but it is an admission that as real people in the real world, we can never have the comfort of a tension-free, contradiction-free theory for anything of significance.

[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That's free speech with an asterisk. It also means you have this big gray area and someone policing and deciding what is and isn't hate speech, so you won't ever see completely free speech thoughts from everyone.

You can't have your cake, and eat it too. Having rules against what can be said or talked about means you're in a bubble, for better or worse.

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world -2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh no, policing. Like in everything else in a functioning society because people do things they are not supposed to. You're free to drive wherever but you're but free to ram your car into pedestrians. Oh my god the oppression.

[–] amanneedsamaid@sopuli.xyz 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yes but one is words, and the other has a guaranteed tangible impact? I don't think thats a viable analogy

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Somebody calling up your family and workplace and tell them you've been stealing for your drug habit are also just words.

[–] amanneedsamaid@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 weeks ago

They'd get laughed off the line unless they tried to fabricate evidence against me, which at that point is a different crime.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Well how do u define hate speach? Is misgendering someone hate speach or free speach? Is burning a flag hate speach or free speach? Is calling for the death of elon musk hate speach or free speach?

Its impossible to define hate and free speach in a way everyone agrees with ans thus impossible to have both symultaniously for everyone.

The fediverse is beautiful cos u can choose an instance that defines both in a manner u choose fit or even spin up ur own server and do it however u want.

[–] wucking_feardo@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Misgendering on purpose, hate speech. "On purpose" might be a fuzzy term, but patterns of behaviour will usually make it obvious. Burning a flag, free speech. Calling for death of Elon Musk, hate speech. Calling him out on his bullshit, free speech.

Not actually that hard.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee -5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Misgendering on purpose, hate speech.

So ur definition of hate speach can include something that is purly a subjective experience of being offended? The subjective is by definition whatever one claims it to be. Thus i could claim that subjectively u speaking at all is hate speach? Ohh and dont try claiming its not subjective cos i dont give a fuck if u misgender me (my existance is a counter example of any possible proof).

And here we are disagreeing about what is free/hate speach thus both symultaniously is impossible.

[–] wucking_feardo@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Not imposible if you're wrong. Which you are.

What about demeaning others is subjective? Do you fear that victimhood will be wielded as a weapon? I believe a good percentage of cases of hate speech are very obvious, and the rest should be handled by good old societal norms and shaming.

Do you feel bad when others correct you?

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Didnt u rwad what i wrote?

U don't have a right not to be offended that is simply the cost of free expression. Its only demeaning if u let it be demeaning i dont give a fuck if u misgender me therefore i have a different subjective experience of the same act therfore it is subjective (i am a counter example to any possible proof, as i said).

The subjective is what u decide it is therefore i can subjectively claim u opening ur mouth is demeaning and thus u should be silenced.

What is wrong with this logic other than u dont like it? U havnt corrected me cos u havnt addressed my argument or points all uve done is make the assertion that missgendering is demeaning for ur subjective opinion.

[–] wucking_feardo@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'll grant that there's no acceptable way to programmatically evaluate some text and infer from the text alone if it's hate speech.

That's why I stick to a manual process to evaluate. For example, if enough people report you for misgendering others, and you do not adjust your behaviour it eventuallt becomes hate speech. But a human has to go and analyze this, it is difficult, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't do it.

But your argument is that it's impossible, and I just illustrated that it isn't impossible. I do agree that it's hard. But that's just life for you. Nuance takes time and effort, as most worthwhile things do.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

U missing my point entirely. How can a subjective experience of offence be hatespeach?

The method for evaluation is irrelevant. My argument is that a subjective experience can be anything by anyone.

My argument is not that its impossible to determine but thats since we disagree its impossible to reconcile hate speach and free speach for everyone our definitions of the 2 are different. Thus this answers ops question with a firm no its impossible. This conversion itself is proof. We are the counter example thus the alternative cannot be true. Proof by contradiction.

[–] wucking_feardo@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This is not how proof by contradiction works. And I'm not versed enough in the subject of proofs to explain how.

It's not the subjective experience of the offended what makes it hate speech, but the perceived intention of the offender.

You haven't answered any of my questions friend.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 1 points 3 weeks ago

This is not how proof by contradiction works. And I'm not versed enough in the subject of proofs to explain how.

Im trying to prove its impossible. I assumed that u can reconcile free/hate speach. We are arguing about what is hate speach thus proving we cant reconcile the concepts therefore the assumption cannot be true therefore it must be impossible.

"A proof by contradiction is a method of proving a statement by assuming the opposite statement is true, and then showing that this assumption leads to a logical contradiction." - dr gpt

It's not the subjective experience of the offended what makes it hate speech, but the perceived intention of the offender.

hate speech noun [ U ]

public speech that expresses hate or encourages violence towards a person or group based on something such as race, religion, sex, or sexual orientation (= the fact of being gay, etc.):

  • Cambridge dictionary

So its about the expression of hate by the speach itself not the intention or perception of either party.

This raises the question what is hate?

hate

verb [ I or T ]

to dislike someone or something very much:

  • Cambridge dictionary

Misgendering someone is not an "expression of dislike towards someone or something very much" as it is passing no judgement (well unless ur a sexist who sees sex/gender as a value judgement). Its not encouraging violence and its not doing any of this based on race, religion, sex, or sexual orientation.

You haven't answered any of my questions friend.

None of ur questions are relevent to disproving my clear and concise logical argument. You have failed to address my argument the first time and i simply assumed i didnt explain it clearly enough hence why i ignored the questions that didnt relate to the argument itself and chose to explain my argument more clearly in what i though where simpler terms.