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I rarely feel attacked when I talk with people in person. And we all take people feelings into consideration enough so no one is trying to attack anyone.

I was not actively commenting on social media since I was 13. But when I joined Lemmy i saw the statistics only 1% of people are actively posting and commenting on social media. And since I knew I was in 99% of people who are only consuming and really wanted Lemmy to take off I tried to be more active.

But now I find myself way too often attacked and attacking. And I always judged people that are attacking others on Xitter or Facebook.

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[–] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

All the people here saying, "Just block them" - personally I just can't help suspecting that these are the same people who themselves are insulting and abusing others, who in turn are saying "Just block them".

The solution is not that everyone blocks everyone else. The solution is that we behave civilly and respectfully to each other.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The solution is that we behave civilly and respectfully to each other.

Is it an achievable solution? Because I have no idea how we could make that happen.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

On reddit I was once literally told to go fuck myself for saying it was a nice day. There are psychotic people everywhere, and I really do agree the solution is just to block them. When someone's comment to me consists of "You're an idiot" or some other insult, I generally block them. And no, that's not how I comment.

[–] metaStatic@kbin.earth -1 points 1 month ago

The solution is that we behave civilly and respectfully to each other.

is this your first day on the internet?