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That's not just reading comprehension. People are always answering my questions with unapplicable answers.
"Is it on the left or the right?"
"It's 67, the one with grass in the yard."
Just answer the damn question rather than providing me other information you decide would be more helpful!
Ok so in defense of dumbasses, we don't always understand the question. Eg, whose left? In those cases we don't want to make your clarify the question and drag things out, so we give you what we hope is an unequivocally clear response. It comes from a deep-seeded fear of miscommunication resulting in too many mailboxes with their flags on the wrong side or whatever. We apologize for the pedantry, though. I get that it's annoying.
When we're driving typically left means left.
Depends which direction youβre coming from though
Now we're starting to see another problem that might be at play when people say "I'm not getting answers to my questions"
One key to happiness for me is to start from the assumption that I've been unclear.
Not if we're in the same car.