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That's a very surface level glance at the movement. Don't get me wrong, it is about women who "love munching on cake" because those women should be able to do whatever the fuck they want and still be respected and treated with dignity(~~I also can't ignore that it's an issue for fat women, but not fat men?~~) . You don't have to find fat people attractive, hell, you don't even have to like them, but that doesn't mean that person should be condemned to a life of solitude and ridicule until their body is good enough for society. Life is too short for that. Even if you're working towards health, you should still get to experience the world today. However, that's one piece of of the movement, it is also about stopping the "real women have curves" ideas, and putting body types against each other. It's about how leading men are showing casually jacked forms like that's just what the average guy looks like. It's about men not drinking water before shoots to see their muscles better, even if it leaves them dangerously dehydrated. It's about men who are ridiculed or turned down for their height alone. It's about men like OP who think their body type isn't good enough, it's about the women OP met who automatically deemed OP's value by his apperence. If your complaint is that there aren't enough representations of male body types, that is part of the body positivity movement. These desires are not opposed to each other, but to do one, you have to do the other. You can't have a message of "All these bodies are great, except those." It shouldn't matter how the body got the way it is, or even if the body is healthy. It deserves respect. I don't chastise and belittle thin people, or even "too thin" people, and go, "you need to eat a sandwich. You need to lift weights. I'm just worry about your health after all. God, just eat more. It's not hard." If they're not friends or family, it's none of my fucking business.
For some reason fat people feeling good and desirable about their bodies seems like the worst fucking thing for whatever reason. We have had people doing all kinds of drugs and harmful practices to stay thin, or avoid that ridicule. Fat shouldn't be a social death knell. A condition, sure. Not healthy, fine. Not worth being seen or existing? Not fine.