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For those who struggle with dating, what do you consider to be your biggest hurdle? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 month ago by Gjolin@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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At what step do you struggle the most?

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[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

Oh I get that, just looking for someone has never worked for me either, it's so much effort and so little chance of working out that I just can't be bothered. The relationships I had were with people I met through common interests. Like an IRL meeting of an online RPG and stuff like that. It's so much easier to get to know people when you already have things in common, you can skip most of the annoying parts. Wish I had a cat too, though !