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Any tips on dealing with people that don't like you? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by lidd1ejimmy@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 17 points 3 months ago

Avoid them when you can. Clear, minimal, a bit more polite than you would like to be when you can't. If it's work related focus on your common goal.

I'd also advise you to take some time to reflect on what makes them dislike you. If you find a lot of people who dislike you for similar reasons you may have to evaluate if you should (and can) change.