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[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 118 points 3 months ago (21 children)

Open carriers show off two major things, and neither one of them are "tough guy".

First is fragile masculinity, they are worried that they aren't seen as "manly" enough, so they have to show off to everyone that they are totally manly. It's like women wearing that new handbag out and about, they want others to notice it.

Second is pure fear, fear that at any time any moment something is going to happen, and the only way they feel safe is by carrying a lethal weapon with them at all times. You know, rather than dealing with what is causing the fear in the first place.

So, we have a terrified person carrying a lethal weapon who is worried about what everyone around them think. To me, that's the more worrying person in a room.

[–] abigscaryhobo@lemmy.world 17 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I have a friend who open carries everywhere as well. We do not live in a dangerous area at all and he carries this thing to the grocery store.

I call it his "big boy gun" because it makes him feel like he's a big boy now, like a kid who wears his "big boy" pants with no diapers.

[–] fpslem@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I call it his “big boy gun”

Good! And I hope you never let him hear the end of it. What a poser.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 5 points 3 months ago

I had the talk with a friend once who did it, told him I didn't feel comfortable. We went to a fast food place and told him to look around, people weren't admiring him, they were afraid of him. Luckily he saw reason and stopped wearing it shortly after.

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