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I believe that if a man and a woman get together and both sides get turned on, the man is more likely to be more desperate to get off.

Is it common among women though?

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[โ€“] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Yeah same, it's always been between about 30 seconds and 5 minutes, with occasional "it's not gonna happen" times, and as I get older more multiples too, that didn't happen for me when young. Husband is about 3 minutes on the low end, usually 10, sometimes hour or more and still wants to get off, I would give up way before that.