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Start telling people now, over on reddit. BEFORE they start cracking down. That way, everyone will know, and the growth will happen even more rapidly.

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[–] _Sprite@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I think coomers would sooner go to twitter for their porn before here

[–] corus_kt@lemmy.world 11 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Why though? Twitter is almost completely inaccessible outside of login and nitter was shut down, it's horrendous for nsfw engagement now

You'd have better luck thirstposting on insta or tiktok

[–] ChillDude69@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Exactly. Also, good luck searching, bookmarking, filtering, sorting posts, organizing actual communities, etc. The whole methodology of the platform basically disallows all those things.

Lemmy is a replacement for Reddit. That's straight-up what it is. That's why we're here. Even if TwiX hadn't become evil and insane, because of its insane master, it still wouldn't be any kind of replacement for Reddit. Especially the NSFW Reddit communities.

[–] Uranium3006@kbin.social 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

also corposhit is increasingly not useful for literally anything

[–] ChillDude69@lemmynsfw.com -5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Of course, according to some of the people in this thread, I'm a corpo-apologist, because I think the Lemmy/Fediverse has to grow beyond a level of about 2k users per day, per community, or else it will eventually die.

Face fucking palm.

[–] Uranium3006@kbin.social 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

or else it will eventually die.

how so?

[–] ChillDude69@lemmynsfw.com -2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

BECAUSE 2K USERS PER SUB-VERSE, PER DAY IS NOT EVEN ENOUGH TO BE SAFE FROM THE ATTRITION OF NATURAL DEATH RATES, AMONG THE USERS.

Some of you guys really do not have even a smidgen of understanding, about how small the Lemmy/Fediverse platform is. More people probably get banned from Txitter/X every hour than the total number of users, in the whole history of this platform.

It's not sustainable. It has to grow some more, or else it will die. You're just being obstinate. It's like if you have 12 dollars in your bank account, and your family is like "we're going to starve, at this rate," and you'd be like "HOW SO? WE HAVE 12 DOLLARS, DUMBASS."

Well, if someone breaks their leg in a freak accident, BOOM, there goes your entire future.

Now, plenty of people are broke without it being their fault. And I'm not saying it's anyone's fault that the Fediverse/Lemmy is currently too small to guarantee its survival....but that's the fact. It's too small to be safe. It's INCREDIBLE that I am having to patiently explain this obvious shit to so many angry people.

EDIT: to be fair, I actually have every confidence that the Fediverse/Lemmy WILL show an increase in growth, and will probably survive, at least for several upcoming years. But some of y'all are like "NUUUUU, I THINK IT SHOULD STAY SMALL, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT." Nah, man. It can't stay this small. It's not sustainable for it to stay this small.

[–] Uranium3006@kbin.social 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What? You're saying we need to grow faster because at.under 2k users a day we'll die of old age to fast?

[–] ChillDude69@lemmynsfw.com -2 points 6 months ago

If old age was the only thing people ever died of, you really would have zinged me, there.

But alas, sweet summer child, none of us are guaranteed perfect health and good conditions, until we're 100. And, as I've been trying to make clear, dying is just the most extreme reason that someone might stop frequenting a platform.

If the 9.5 per 1000 annual death rate is enough to make any impact on the population of these communities, what about other stuff? What if there are some days when the servers don't work right, and some people just drift away because of that? What if another competing platform shows up and splits the community?

Again: a rough average of 2k per community is simply too small. It's not enough to be safe, for the future. Remember that 20 or 30 thousand concurrent users is just barely sniffing the upper levels of what is considered a small subreddit, back over on Reddit.

It's just ASTONISHING to me that I'm having to make this basic point, over and over and over and over again. Two thousand people can almost be crammed into a couple of bigass airplanes. WHY CAN'T YOU JUST SAY "yeah, I guess we could use a few more people."

Why is that so fucking hard for some of you fuckers? I'm about to lose my shit, with this fucking conversation.

[–] _Sprite@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The average coomer that would lurk on a reddit porn sub probably doesn't know nitter exists. If they already made a reddit account just for porn, they'd do the same on twitter, insta, fucking google+, any of the most popular options. Most couldn't care less about privacy beyond incognito. All they want is the porn, and they'll do the bare minimum to get it

[–] corus_kt@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I think you underestimate how savvy an actual addicted coomer is (source: am former hoarder and recovering coomer; I first learned of nitter from lurking in subreddits...) I have an X acc if I really wanted to see stuff but I ain't checking that one instead of like ten other site accounts for recent 'news'. The kind of bare minimum user you describe wouldn't even scroll past page two of subreddits or phub, much less care about X when it doesn't even let you preview what you'd sign up for.

[–] _Sprite@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

I'll admit, I've never used twitter in my life except for linking account data to mobile games. But I assume that you just search 18+ or naked boob and you get accounts to follow and see on your timeline immediately after opening the app again

[–] ChillDude69@lemmynsfw.com -2 points 6 months ago

Unless Elong has really gone wildin', they don't allow straight-up gonewild posts on Twix. If /r/gonewild gets banned/censored/otherwise crippled, millions of people from that subreddit will come here, as long as they are told about it.

We just all need to spread the word.