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Lemmy users who feel the heaviness of depression, what issue in your life weighs you down the most?
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this post was submitted on 27 Jul 2023
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Everyone else would jump at the chance to judge me - and has so far. They see me as only a slave to serve their needs; any moment I am failing to do so makes me worthy of death in their eyes.
I never understood that either. I am judged a lot but then I see someone who others consider judgeworthy and I don't think I've ever not asked "why am I to judge this person again". By definition, I cannot blame those who try their best.
They're all narcissists. Every human being who has not been traumatized is a narcissist; only trauma can drive out narcissism. Trauma rubs people's faces into their own mortality; only knowing their own mortality can humble them enough to get over themselves.
Is that to say innocence doesn't exist?