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I went to bed at 5-6 am for a few years. I didn't have sleep issues whatsoever. Slept the same amount and felt just as rested (more if anything) as now where I have a "normal" sleep schedule.
There's also people that, yknow, work at night, whose sleep might start at 9.
I don't think it's necessarily wrong to not limit yourself greatly on what u do based on if someones sleeping as long as you avoid very loud things (a pleasant fuck you to my mom (love you) for insisting she needs to vacuum at like 11 every second day when I had that sleep schedule), but your reasoning is just bull.
See I actually agree with you on this, to a point, that if you're working night shift and your mum knew about it, then it's pretty unfair to be doing the vacuuming at that time each day if she knows you're going to bed that late.
If you're just deciding/feeling it's better for you to be going to sleep that late with no other reasons, then yeah, I do think it was on you to come to some other compromise with your mum about when she can vacuum. In the early afternoon after you wake up for example.
It's the "other people should work around me by default" attitude that I take issue with. When the standard is be awake during the day (right or wrong), then I think it's on the people asking for deviation from that to ask for accommodation.
Hope this clears things up a bit.