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I understand a fantasy and a one time thing like tipping on a guys night out at a strip club, but some of these guys think they are in a relationship with someone they will never meet and don't even know their real name or life details.

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[โ€“] Boozilla@lemmy.world 17 points 9 months ago (1 children)

They are lonely and desperate for any kind of interaction with another human. Because sex work is illegal and dangerous, it creates a market for this kind of stuff. It's sad. People need attention, touch, and love from other humans as much as they need food and water. But many people are unattractive and/or socially inept... but do have some money. And society is largely cruel and heartless towards outsiders. It's hard for most to accept, but many factors outside of a person's control can force them into a lonely life of rejection and non-acceptance by average folks. People find all kinds of things to fill these voids. Paying cam models is just one of many coping mechanisms, and maybe not as self-destructive as drugs, booze, food, etc.

[โ€“] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

I agree with every single thing you said. But, I paid for a woman's OnlyFans account for a couple of months.

She was wildly attractive to me, but the thing I admired the most was how artful she was in her nudes. The outfits and makeup and all that, simply artful.

She put real work into all that, and I so loved the effort. And besides, yikes, talk about my type.

$5/mo. for a couple of months, no big deal, and I was happy to help her out. But I had zero illusions, zero attachment, and I told her everything I've said here. She was very nice, chatted briefly a time or two, and didn't try to suck me into some kinda pseudo relationship.

Not a shill, but if you like 'em flat as a board:

https://twitter.com/Princes_rosea

Go from there.