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I can wear a dress to work and nobody criticizes me. I’d be really sad if I had to wear pants all the time, they’re just not as comfortable. Let’s normalize pretty dresses for dudes!

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[–] coffeewithalex@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Wear whatever the hell you want, right? Screw genders and made up rules around them.

[–] Bazzatron@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Gender Abolitionism/Accelerationism ✊😤

[–] Flashoflight@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Right? I'm on this train. Hell if you want to be naked do it. But hell...being naked is uncomfortable and impractical.

[–] coffeewithalex@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes. But. Not sexual nudity. Nudity is fine in itself, but the fact that most people see it as sexually explicit, sexually suggestive, or an actual sexual activity, is the problem. Consciously I am for this, but subconsciously I'd still react to nudity as sexual (as most other people), because I've not yet encountered enough non-sexual nudity to get used to it. It's like going to a beach - at first it's "niiice sexy bodies", but on the second day it's like "meh, people making it hard to get to the water". It's the novelty.

[–] Flashoflight@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah so true! Go to some festivals or a nude beach!