Kichae

Like you I’m confused at the continual cries of racism on Mastadon.

I, uh, said I'm not confused by the cries of racism. I'm confused by the constant claims of "I don't see any, therefore it must not exist".

It's like no one gives a shit, because it doesn't affect them personally. Which, you know, makes everyone the kind of people that those experiencing harassment don't want to be around anyway.

Yeah. It's pretty telling that my entire time on Mastodon has been punctuated by black users complaining about how much racism they're exposed to on the network, and everyone else going "I don't see any racism!"

Like, ok, maybe you don't. I don't. I'm as white as snow, and don't post about my experiences as a racialized person (not being one, and all). But it's pretty clear, just from seeing the same exchange over and over again, that racialized people are experiencing something I'm not, and them expressing as much has Defenders of the Faith circling wagons every time it comes up.

Mastodon being a little more complicated than Twitter wouldn't have been a major blocker to communities coming over. "Hey, join this site", rather than "join Mastodon!" is all you need. But no one's going to be telling black folks, or any other community, to come on over if the social atmosphere is at least as toxic as where they're coming from.

Now with another alternative, Mastodon also needs to be better than "not being Twitter". And the people who are there already seem to have zero interest in doing that.

It really wouldn't be a Lemmy client with a Facebook-like personal profile, pages, and more. You'd need your own backend, and then you've got something all its own.

I know you're worried about Friendica's ability to scale, but how big are you expecting to scale your site?

The political divesity is less of an issue than the political ferver. Most people don't want to talk aboit politics. They want to avoid political discussions, and get upset when people do things as basic as pointing out that politics exists in their bubble.

The fediverse turns them off because it's loaded with politically aware and stubbornly vocal people, not because there aren't enough people playing apologetics for the ruling class

The fediverse really is best viewed as a local-first space. Everything just works better if your primary focus is on the people or communities on your local instance. But people keep trying to think of it as primarily about the space in between, because that's what's novel.

But most people do not give a shit about that novelty, and we "market" it terribly.

"Lemmy" doesn't exist like Reddit does. It's not a place people can go to talk about shit. It's a website engine. It exists like WordPress does. One of its features just happens to be "can pull content from other websites".

If we want this space to grow, we need to focus on building community websites that stand on their own. Then we can market it as "hey, you love it here on MyInterest.social, but did you know you can also talk to people from SomethingElse.social? Pretty cool, huh??!?" Nobody seems to want to do that, though. That means we're totally at the mercy of places like Twitter and Reddit, waiting for them to fuck up badly again and hoping more people just kind of land here, in some cheap and uncanny knockoff of where they really wanted to be.

This is still validating the profit incentive of private health insurance.

If the doctor prescribes unnecessary care, it should be none of these peoples' business, because they shouldn't be allowed any stake in the decision whatsoever.

"Widened footpaths"? You mean you want to take space away from cars for pedestrians now? Hah!

"Trump tries to galvanize anti-US sentiment in Canada."

Like, you realize he's mocking us, not Trudeau, right? He may be trying to talk down to JT, but he's insulting the whole country.

It's only Christmas when someone else is doing the work!!1!~

No. Everybody knows that some people stand up for mass murderers, so long as they do it by enough proxy layers.

Plenty of people betray society for want of looking down on others

The principle should be "harm society at large, abandon the protections of society".

That just sounds like the author whining about not being a child anymore. Christmas isn't something that happens for them now, it's something they have to make happen for others, and man does that just kill the Christmas spirit! Wah wah wah!