Maybe it has something to do with our coevolution with canines? Just speculation on my part.
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The things we find cute are not necessarily the things which we associate with predators. We find prey animals cute too.
The peacock jumping spider is cute af.
I like spiders. wait fuck they are predators too. the only animal which I can think of that aren't, are fish, and heck yeah, one of my favorite animals IN THEORY but they just suck, I mean they are in the water, how will you cuddle or form a bond, you will drown upon entering the fish's dome, it will suffocate upon entering your world. it is an impossible relationship, it cannot be. I want floating fish in air, can someone engineer this
Why do humans find humans attractive?
That's kind of a dumb question. Reproduction.
I'm not gonna fuck an animal just because I find it cute.
Evolutionarily I'm gonna wanna fuck another person I find cute because dna says procreate or the species dies.
It's only a dumb question is you don't think a little further. Go on, you can do it.
You just listed a bunch of mammals, not a representative sample of predators. You think lobsters and spiders are cuter than cuter than deer and koalas?
edit: oops, 4 mammals and a bird
Owls are not mammals. Also many people think certain spiders are cute and same with many lizards and amphibians.
Frogs are cute, jumping spiders are cute, geckos are cute. They're all predators but they're still cute
Good point.
Which raises another paradox: attractive does not seem to be a proxy for appetizing.
At least for most people. Personally I find lobsters creepy as hell and would never even touch one much less eat it.
Spiders of the sea. Crabs too. I wouldn't want to touch one that wasn't cooked.
Although I find the comparison discomforting to think about, the sea spiders both go well with butter and are generally regarded as delicious.
That introduces the question: if there were a land spider large enough to nullify the risk/reward/deliciousness equation, would I give it a try? My gut answer is no, but I think the realistic answer is, "I'll wait and see what my fellow apes do with it first. If they have any good recipes, probably yes."
Fascinating subject. I seem to be out of the ordinary here. To me it is completely unignorable that crustaceans are arthropods, i.e., close cousins of insects and spiders, which I would never be able to eat. Ergo, I find the idea of eating crabs and lobsters and shrimps just as gross as the idea of eating tarantulas and would never touch any of them.
Similarly, it is completely obvious to me that rats and mice are close cousins of hamsters and squirrels. Hence I find them all equally cute and cuddly.
My guess is that my mind is abnormally literal. In other words I'm probably a bit autistic. Most people are just more socially conditioned than me. Waiting to see what their fellow apes do first, as you put it.
What's funny is that I also think I'm on the spectrum.
And to continue the conversation - my husband and I have been talking about visiting a South American country this summer where roasted guinea pig is on the menu. I honestly think I could give it a try even though I try to save any mice that my cats corner.
Food choices are both weird and personal. I'll always respect that.
Think of it as a small rabbit rather than a large mouse!
Not many eat rabbits these days, but it's long been thought of as human food compared to most other rodents.
Yeah I could eat guinea pig. At a pinch.
I read once that all mammal flesh is roughly indistinguishable in texture and taste. Yes, including humans. Chimps think nothing of chowing on monkeys. The reality is that we're all extremely close cousins.
It's basically all just culture, as you say. Enjoy your guinea-pig stew.
Jumping spiders are kinda cute.
"Who's a cute little pedophile?"
I wouldn't consider dogs predators like cats are. Cats can easily survive in the wild. Dogs cannot as easily. They mostly need people to survive. Some breeds probably could but a lot would be absolutely fucked. I'd take dogs off that list lol.
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