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[–] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 10 points 2 days ago (35 children)

"I don't understand women."

Whenever someone has an issue with an SO, then extrapolates that to all women... that's a red flag to me that this guy has a lot more misogynistic views just outside the frame of view.

It is unfortunately common. Pretty much all of the guys I know IRL complain about their SOs with "Pft. Women, right?" And I'm sitting here like... No? Maybe that's just your SO? Or just your SO when they're with you?

[–] zqps@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

And this case like most relationship issues comes down to insecurities and bad/non-existent communication. To which, let's face it, male socialization is a major contributor.

With stoicism and a fear of vulnerability, we're far too often standing standing in our own way.

[–] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 4 points 2 days ago

That is unfortunately the tendency for men, yeah.

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