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Just out of curiosity: Why do you ask that quesion every few days?
what question did I ask twice every few days?
I mean three days before you asked a very similar question on how to develop a thicker skin and you got lots of answers, some very long and detailed. I think I didn't reply because I've answered that question several times before, pointed to the ancient greek philosophers, stoicism and how to pay attention to the small things around you and focus on positivity and not waste your energy on negativity. That's generally good advice, but not tailored to your individual situation.
I'm not sure why you ask the same question again. Maybe the answers didn't help you. Or it's just me who thinks it's the same question again but for you this is a different take on a similar topic.
Since you didn't engage in the previous discussion, I thought I'd ask you a direct question. I mean you could just be venting and running through the 5 stages of grief or something. Anyways, I think it's a valid question and you should be able to live a happy life.
How did the thing with the failed appointment turn out? Did you get an apology?