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Context, I'm 30 now and i will find women my age and up attractive, but 15 years ago a 35 year old women would never have been attractive to me.

As I've aged younger women are less and less attractive (thankfully)

But when I'm 60 will 60 year old women be attractive to me?

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[โ€“] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago (8 children)

I think that if people are of an age where they can legally and ethically consent, and if there isn't any kind of abuse of power going on, it's none of my damn business. Maybe people should just fuck off with pushing their ideas about morality on other people.

[โ€“] Disco_Dougie@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

I don't think you can date an 18 year old as a 30 year old without an automatic abuse of power. Even so, what does that say as the (middle aged) adult?

[โ€“] charlytune@mander.xyz 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)
[โ€“] Disco_Dougie@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Sure feels like it. I am so tired and my back hurts.

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