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"Being critical of someone does not remove their humanity"
I don't think anybody told you it did.
saying that someone's feelings are not valid?
that is dehumanizing.
"Those are all of my feelings, does that make me right too?"
you're still missing the point. it doesn't matter how right or wrong you were, your feelings are valid and should be respected, particularly if, instead of how you are characterizing Cynthia, she is nearly expressing how she feels so that people are aware of how erasing her makes her feel.
"Her feelings are valid - internally. Making them public like this exposes her to criticism"
criticizing her and trying to invalidate her experiences only dehumanizes you, not her.
her feelings are valid.
you don't like it, that's valid too.
but it does not invalidate her feelings just because you value her less than you value yourself.
The same selfish problem everyone else complaining about her merely expressing herself has.