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I'm in my 30s so I should be used to this by now, but this shit is getting so stressful guys. I have no savings, my checking account is drained every month with rent, and if there's ever a serious emergency I have no safety net, I'm legitimately fucked. I'm one unplanned expense away from absolute ruin. Those in the same boat as me, how do you deal with this?

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[โ€“] OADINC@feddit.nl 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Once you qualify for any assistance program (and you are not exploiting a loophole) you don't have to feel bad for using it. You are literally the target audience of the program.

[โ€“] D61@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Absolutely true.

Its also a bit eye opening to grow up thinking that you're, "Not rich, but not poor", and then realizing that, "Nope, I'm poor." Its a bit of a shock to the system.

[โ€“] donslaught@unilem.org 1 points 1 year ago

Also, if you're paying taxes, you are literally helping to fund the program(s).