this post was submitted on 17 Aug 2023
943 points (93.2% liked)

World News

32285 readers
554 users here now

News from around the world!

Rules:

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 50 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (14 children)

Wait, you all weren't wearing masks still?

meow-knife-trans

Give a shit about your fellow humans and yourself.

[–] stereofony@lemm.ee 23 points 1 year ago (11 children)

From a fellow trans person: I know you mean well, but shame/ridicule is the least effective agent of change. This kind of attitude I hear not just from you but other leftist queer friends just straight up leaves a bad taste in people's mouths and does nothing to convince folks of your cause, no matter how good your intentions are. To quote a Tshirt I once saw: Kindness is more punk rock than a middle finger.

Collective care and justice should be rooted in compassion, not denigration and superiority complexes.

[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 44 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

superiority complexes.

TIL needing to mask for health reasons is a superiority complex.

I'm not going to address any of the rest of your comment except to say, stop tone policing a shitpost. The point was to vent about a genuine frustration, not to convince anyone.

[–] stereofony@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry, but somewhere along the way in leftist circles, "don't tone police me" became synonymous with "I'm allowed to be as shitty as I want to other people because of my trauma" and that's the behavior I can't get down with. Trauma is an explanation, not an excuse.

[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Wait so what trauma are you using to justify your shitty behavior? And you never asked me not to tone police you?

load more comments (8 replies)
load more comments (10 replies)